haters and complainers

Why do we all complain so freaking much? I’m doing it right now. I’m complaining about complaining. We complain about things that are going wrong, but we sit still and don’t do anything about it. I think we forget sometimes that we can always get up and do something about something that bothers us. Instead, we just sit here and talk and whine and complain.

I’m tired of hearing people say “I had no choice.” You always have a choice! No one is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to do stuff. Maybe you only have sucky choices, but you do have choices and you do have control over a lot more than you think you do.

And hating – pointing out the negative aspects of a person, place, or thing, without good reason. We all do it, me too. But I’m gonna try to stop. Or at least recognize when I’m doing it so I can gradually phase it out. Negativity isn’t fun. It just happens to be in style.

No offense if you’re a hater. I’m one too. It just gets old sometimes.